Evil fate has decided to make my life hell does not want to have even a couple of weeks of calm. I just called Triki professor to tell me what's happening in your English classes, that apparently there are problems, and wing!. Around the same theme as always. Since I have requested a meeting in January to talk about my daughter.
The problem? The usual. So I called last year. And the last. He lives immersed in their world. Ignoring, because there seems to be in touch with the real world. Who is unable to keep track of a game, a conversation. That is obvious from some of their behaviors and attitudes, has emotional problems.
And starts to be higher, he says, and you have to go watchthat topic, those behaviors. Maybe not now, but next year ... or later, perhaps something should be done. He did not say clearly, but the suggestion is obvious: it should go to the psychologist.
And I'm starting to spin to the head. When did this start? It always has been, is a personality trait, or the problems started when we broke the first time? Are aggravated by the separation, divorce, my job change? "For me a scant two hours a day? Am I responsible for my daughter's emotional problems, being a bad mother, not to give it the attention it needs?
Now I have to speak to Rafa, who these days is edge and distant with me (and I know nothing of my newborn andStren love life) to return, once again, on the same subject. To be taken lightly, as usual, saying that they're exaggerated, it's just a girl who is perfectly normal. And sometimes I think maybe it is true that I have a tendency to imagine the worst case scenario and make a mountain out of a molehill. But when three different teachers from different schools, I say the same thing also occurs to me that maybe he does not want to see that your child has problems.
And the point is not that I do not want it as it is, much less, I love to be different, original. But I want to be happy, and I realize that for that, you need to integrate into society, having friends, or at least understand and accept the rules of livesI do not mind the background while she likes it or not, while carrying get a good life. Not only be happy now, but when a teenager, as an adult. I want my daughter to be a useful person that others are glad to have him. And I know not if we pamper you all, if we close our eyes to the problems and hope to fend for themselves.
I may be wrong by taking this position, and my Triki always want more to her father and her bf than me, because the spike and try to walk where I have to go. But she is my soul, what would I not do to save my soul?
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